When in love, I have found that I sometimes indulge in dreams of love due to actions. But I find that’s mostly just a storybook thing. Love comes from the person, and the long-term behaviors.
I don’t recall if I used “Asian” because of the often cited “they all look alike to me” — and then expanded it to say that to vultures, all humans look alike. But if I did, it’s not a bad commentary/reminder.